God is crazy about you.

God is crazy about you.
God sends you fresh flowers every spring, a breathtaking sunrise every morning. If God had a wallet, your picture would be in it. If God has a refrigerator, your childhood scribbles would be on it.
Taken From Message From God:

Twas the Day after Christmas !!!

Ok So I am Watching All My Favorite Christmas shows on DVD. I just finished "The year w/o a Santa Claus" Heat miser i love this guy, Now I'm watching "Santa Claus is Coming to Town" watched 3 Versions of Scrooge including the 1951 Classic Version n the Musical with Kelsy Grammar (Frasier) n Jesse L Martin the Black Detective on Law & Order. I LOVE This Day...Lol...Time to feed the kids then My NEW Fave "ELF

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Hi All sorry i haven't been doing a good job of blogging lately but now that the troops are safely back in school I will be updating every other day at least and posting new content...Love ya... Carita Sunshine...

“Success is not measured by what you accomplish, but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.” Anon

You can only give away what you already have inside yourself.
Message from God
True giving happens when you are overflowing from the inside, and cannot help but share. When there is so much love within you that it has to flow to others or you would burst open. There is no thinking involved, no willpower in such sharing. It just flows out. If you have to force yourself to be kind, to love, to feel compassion, you've missed the first step of filling in your own Self with these emotions.

Taken From Message From God:
Wealth is never measured by what you have, but by what you can give away. You are rich with money when you can afford to donate. You are rich with love when you can give love freely. You are rich with God when you can behold your enemy with compassion.

Day 22: Fast From wrong thinking: "Life is good at its worst it Beats the Alternative" Carita Sunshine...

Why We Stay

Day 22: The Question was Asked:
Have you ever felt like you've thrown away some of the best years of your life in a relationship that never had any real potential? Or even if it had potential that's been dead a long time too. but you held on for the sake of LOVE or is it really due to A lack of self love.... Why do WE STAY?

DAY 22: My Answer
I believe nothing is ever wasted or lost Every relationship serves a Purpose Everything has a reason...We all have LIFE Lessons to learn some of the harshest people can be your best teachers and the hardest relationships teach us the most Val.U.Able lessons.At the end of the day Self Hatred keeps us locked in until Self Preservation calls out for help then, Self Esteem comes knocking and opens the door, Self Worth sets us free and Self Love lets us walk away.Love YOUR SELF TODAY its ok....
Carita Sunshine...

Dare to be different

Today is a New Day Dare to be different,It's easy to fall into routines - sleep and eat at the same time, wear the same style, and do your work the same way every day. Before you know it, you're in a rut. The only way to pull out of it is to decide to break free. Try a new hairstyle. Wear colors that are new for you. If the rut is really deep, consider a new career. Expand your horizons.

Carita Sunshine Life By Design

Carita Sunshine LIFE COACH...

This Service is Currently FREE. I am A CHRISTIAN I have been so Blessed and Highly Favored all my life, not because I'm so good but because GOD is so merciful. I also know that we live in the real world where "Some folks are So Heavenly Minded they're no earthly Good". I do not want to be counted in that number. So many people come to me for advice and guidance. I am honored to be considered GOOD Counsel. While I am not a Therapist,Psychologist or any other Clinical Professional,I love helping whenever possible."My name is pronounced Cara like "take Cara yourself" I'm told that I am a great Mom,Friend,Employer,Partner, and Confidante. I try to stay positive no matter whats going on around me."Whether I'm up or Down I'm always up" And "If I'm Losing it must be Half-time cuz I always WIN" My always Optimistic(Sunny)outlook on all things, and My Diverse Background allow me to speak knowledgeably and compassionately on many subjects, including



*Mother-Hood: 6+1 Amazing Kids, 2 out of College 1 on the way to College in the fall

*Business: A Leading IT Firm in the DC,MD,VA Metro area voted by INC' Magazine # 43 out of 5,000 Top Small businesses in the Country6K Systems, Inc

*CFO and Personal Financial Analyst

*Associations in the Music, Film,Literary and Entertainment Industry

.*Songwriting and Poetry Skills, I am a Published Author.

*Work with Abused women and Children. www.TimetoFly.org

*Former Licensed Teacher

*Champion for Justice.

**I am Currently pursuing My Life Coaching Certification.


No matter what Philosophy, Religion or Doctrine you subscribe to I will endeavor to give guidance, answer questions, connect you with Key Players and generally steer you in the right direction...Feel free to post a comment or ask a question Go to Caritasushine.blogspot.com and Sign Up...Click on the"Put Me in the Game Coach" page and away we go...The Ball is your Court



GO Hard Or GO Home...CaritaSunshine...



Letting Go...

Day 14: Understanding what it is to be selfless, rather than selfish is not the problem, observing, embracing, & applying the actions needed to give without expectation is the problem... Learning to walk the selfless walk while you talk the selfless talk is the solution and Part of The Mission should You choose to accept it. Carita Sunshine...Concept From Faah

I want it all Back

Today's Thought
Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.

Sorry I was on Hiatus for a minute But now I'm back...
Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart

DAY 3: Be not conformed to this world be transformed by the
renewing of your mind... Spend time today Focused on GOD's Plan
for your Life,Not yours Let Go of preconceived, notions, and Ideas
of what you have planned for U. Let Him guide you to the perfect plan He
has for you. Pay attention to everything positive that
brings you joy (Not vices)
What gives you the
greatest joy and internal peace will lead you to your purpose....

OK It's Officially My BIRTHDAY ROAR, ROAR, ROAR...Much LOVE TO you ALL thank you for the B-Day Wishes...Thanks ALL l LOVE YOU Mooooodgey...Carita Suunshine...

MY B-DAY IS Tomorrow... Yeah Happy Birthday to me ... Almost Time to ROAR...Queen of the Jungle...True Leo Kind, Strong, Generous, Courageous,Loyal,Bold and Beautiful, Modest(ok not that one)...AND I Luv Me Some Me Y not..Carita Sunshine...
Thank you for the Love...

LET IT FLOW !!!

Taken from Message from God:
Today you are to let grace flow freely from your heart.

Think back over the last few days, - how many times have you felt appreciation towards another? How many times have you thought about another: 'what a lovely smile', or 'she is so nice', or 'such a kind man', or any of a myriad of other appreciative thoughts. Did you express them? Did you come up to her and say: 'you are so nice'? And why not? Why did you stop divine grace from flowing freely from your heart? Do you want to change the world to the better? This is it, this is how you start. Keep It Sunny y'all
Carita Sunshine

The Choice is Yours...

.Taken from Message From God...Every day you are choosing either to be grateful or to be disappointed.

You can worry to no end about what you don't have. Or you can marvel at God's breathtaking gifts: the morning dew, the sun, the clouds, the trees, the flowers, the birds. Could you create any of these? These miracles of life are always around you, ready to be celebrated, ready to be welcomed into your life.
Carita Sunshine...

Not YOUR USUAL FAST...

I am taking the Challenge ...A Fast of a Different Kind...Based on Biblical Teaching and the sermon series of Pastor Gregory Dickow... Join Me Starting August 1, 2010-September 10,2010 and Prayerfully til Eternity...on a 40 Day FAST From Wrong Thinking...

***Realize that Everything you need to be happy and have Peace and Joy in this life you already have inside of you. No one is Responsible for your happiness and Contentment in This World but you...Sometimes we get so caught up in the Negatives we forget to focus on All the Positives. Yes even Me...Ms.Sunshine, Ms. 6-cess...

Romans 2:12 And be not conformed to this world: but be you transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
My Mission and yours should you choose to accept it...40 Days of Going hard
* Fasting from Negativity , Confusion and Wrong thinking...
* Believing You have GOD's Best in Every Situation..
* Focusing on GOD's Plan for Your Life...
* Using Your God given gifts and Talents...
* Letting Go of ALL Past Offenses...
* Getting rid of Distractions...
* Putting God First...
* Loving Yourself...

Getting rid of the Blessing Blockers Letting Go (fill in the names of yours {Inside the brackets}

Isaiah 43:18, the Lord says, “Do not remember former things.” Another way of saying that would be, “That was then and this is now.”

*Letting Go of - {Hurt/Offense}- but not letting the culprit off the hook for their actions...Forgiveness is given Trust is earned...

*Letting Go of - Person/People- {hurtful or negative influence}... So My Prayers will not be hindered

*Letting Go of - {ALL Vices} - even Innocent seeming ones(Ex:Too much sugar or caffeine) ... So I can Think Straight

*Letting Go of - {All Egocentric Behavior} - Pride goeth Before Destruction


Philippians 4:8 As the Apostle Paul said
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think on these things.

The mission is not to be in Denial and act like things are not happening around you, it is learning to
Redirect your focus and Channel your energies from Negative to Positive thoughts...
***Then you will automatically speak positive words... instead of saying "I'm always so Tired"...Say" I always have so much energy I give that little Energizer Bunny a run for his money" The world calls it Fake it til you Make it... The Word calls it "Calling those things which be not as though they are" same thing... But your Words follow, Your thoughts which are then Followed by your Actions... (This will be our next Mission think I'll Call it "You'd Better Watch Yo Mouth")

2 Corinthians 10:5 Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;

* All Negative Thoughts OUT...
* All Negative People OUT...
* NO, Naysayers, whiners ,haters, dream killers, allowed in my World...

No matter what you face Count it ALL JOY because it Could always be worse...
***If you fall off the Wagon just know that you are not alone... Start over immediately and Say Out Loud
"I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me. "Philippians 4:13

My Plan is for 6-cess only and Doing the Dang Thing...So Lettssss Gooooo August 1, 2010-September 10,2010... 40 Day FAST From Wrong Thinking... you can do it...Start Today why Delay...

Keep It Sunny y'all....Carita Sunshine...

Excerpt of Sheila Johnson Co-founded BET Biography...Her Story SOUNDS VERY FAMILIAR...

By the early 1980s, the BET cable network had taken shape and was beginning its meteoric growth. Its founding was a joint enterprise on the part of both Johnsons, and when BET was sold to cable giant Viacom in 2002, even as both their personal and business relationships had become acrimonious, they split the proceeds of the sale equally. In the early years, BET was noted for a variety of programs showcasing the best of African-American culture. Sheila Johnson had a hand in several of those, forming an in-house hip-hop chorus and personally creating the weekly "Teen Summit" talk show, featuring up-front discussion of problems such as the threat of AIDS.

Johnson's official title at BET was executive vice president for corporate affairs, but she was an equal partner with her husband in many respects. Family friend Susan Starrett told the Washington Post that the billion-dollar Johnson fortune couldn't have been built without her work, and Johnson herself, asked by the Post whether she had played a supportive role in her husband's career, answered "Why, yes I did. I always put him first. I knew who he was. I know who he is. I was his best friend and his biggest supporter. I believed in him before he believed in himself."

Yet Johnson was dissatisfied with her role. "I detested that, living up under the cloud of Wife Of. I could not stand going to places, and everything was focused on the man, and the wives were sitting around, like they don't exist. Don't. Exist," she told the Post. Too, she felt alienated by the increasingly raunchy direction of BET's programming in the late 1990s. Some felt she played the role of the conscience of the company, and on a day-to-day basis she was more likely to be found listening to the music of classical composer Maurice Ravel than taking in one of BET's bump-and-grind musical productions. As the Johnsons' marriage deteriorated amidst rumors of Robert Johnson's affair with one or more subordinates, Sheila Johnson (who later lamented to the Post that her husband "had a body count") was fired by her husband in 1999.

Read more: Sheila Crump Johnson Biography - Concentrated on Music, Co-founded BET, Turned to Equestrian Lifestyle, Generously Gave Away Millions http://biography.jrank.org/pages/2418/Johnson-Sheila-Crump.html#ixzz0uKka5HLd

EVEN YOU CANNOT REWRITE HISTORY...

It Amazes Me How Some Folks think they can Rewrite History...They twist the facts until they have no correlation to the Truth...It Amazes me how some of these presume to believe they can Rewrite History...You cannot UnRing a Bell...the Clang is out it may dissipate eventually...but It will never disintegrate...The sound can never be undone... Not by You, not by Me, Not by Anyone...It amazes me that some of these presume they can rewrite History...What happened to the better half it is shrouded and clouded in deceit and Mystery...But Even You Cannot Rewrite History...Whats done in the Dark clandestinely...Always revealed in the light...Some Poor Souls wonder of their own Plight... None so foolish as those too blind to open their eyes and realize...That you cannot build an Empire with a Foundation of Lies...You may remove Every Trace try to Erase and Even Seek to replace the MOST Familiar Face...But try as YOU might Even You cannot rewrite History...NO EVEN YOU CANNOT REWRITE HISTORY....For Every Action there is a Reason...ALL THINGS IN DUE SEASON...Ask not for whom the Bell Tolls...It Tolls for thee..
Carita Sunshine

Most of Our Words Are Unecessary...Taken From Message from God..
All too often you speak simply to fill the space with sound, because you feel too uncomfortable with the silence. But this silence is golden. Only in silence you can hear God speak to you. Only in silence can a real prayer, a heart prayer be born. Next time you start chattering, stop and feel into the silence, feel its shape, its texture, and then slowly and silently say only what really has to be said.

Taken From Message from God:
You do not see things as they are. You see them as you are.

When you look, you see reflections of your being. When you listen, you hear echoes of yourself. If you don't like something about what you see and hear, no point in smashing the mirror, change who you are becoming.

LIVING LA VIDA LOCA...

Life is a Contact Sport

Are you sitting on the side lines in life or are you out there on the field??? No championship was ever won just sitting around waiting for the ball to come to the player. Can you imagine if Michael Jordan or Kobe Bryant just stood around hoping someone would come along and give them the ball or Peyton Manning waiting for somebody else to call the plays in the huddle, of course not. What if Serena and Venus just waited for the racquet to hit the ball without swinging. you get the point...
Life is a contact sport. You have to get on the field to score. You will get knocked down a lot, you will get tackled and just like a Quarterback you may even get sacked from time to time,,, but the key is not to stay down. Ever notice how they applaud when and injured player gets up and walks off the field or the court on their own power...So it is in "The Game of Life"...If you get knocked down get up if you can look up then you can get up...Time to get off the bench. no more standing on the sidelines. get in the game, get a plan x's & o's and run Your Plays Your Way. Win or lose you gotta play the game. If I'm losing its half time...Shake and Bake time Babyyyy...(in my Dick Vitale voice)

Good Morning World Time to Get Movin and Shakin...If there was a Tsuanami or an Avalanche headed your way how fast would you move...Well think fast get in gear and Letttsss GO Keep It Sunny y'all Carita Sunshine....

LOVE is funny -- like a piece of fine Crystal, lovely, glimmering, beautiful and sparkling, but also sooo delicate and fragile. If you break it can never be the same again, if you try to mend it the glue lines always show... But that same shattered bits of glass in the hands of a Master Artisan can be melted down reformed and changed into something even more brilliant, exquisite and durable Think Swarovski ... Thank you LOVE for breaking me and Sending a Master Craftsman to put the pieces back more Beautiful and Refined than I ever Dreamt...

Rise and shine and Give God the glory!!! glory.... children of the Lord !!!

The King (Richard) that is...

Good Morning World...Last night was a loooooonnnng night...Didnt get to sleep until after 4 am..So guess what I have been offering to Babysit my New nephew King for weeks...I bet you can guess who came to visit Auntie Cara at 8am...Yup you got it none other that King Richard...Uh oh gotta Go the King wants a Baba !!! Gottal Love it he so darn cute... Lol....Pics coming soon...

Meaning Behind...CaritaSunshine...

Carita Sunshine... The name Carita is taken from a Latin phrase and translates as "Speaking the truth in love." Eph 4:15 it also means, Dearness and a High Price...And we all Know what Sunshine... is as CaritaSunshine... I will endeavor to always speak the Truth in Love,to those I hold dear... you...In a way that illuminates, warms and Shines Bright...No matter how high the cost..The Truth Shall set Us Free... Keep It Sunny y'all ...CaritaSunshine

Time to RISE And GRIND y'all lets make to day the Most Productive Day ever...yes I said ever...Why not what do you have Lose...Just Remember to Keep It Sunny y'all...

WELCOME...TO THE SUNSHINE...

So here it is Finally My Blog Page... This Page is all about Everything...Friends, Family, Fun and Finance, Facts,Fictions and LIFE LESSONS....
I Will Write my thoughts and Give My HONEST opinions and Responses to your questions...
You know I Love the Lord so He will be a part of Everyday....
Let's just have a fun time excahnging information..please feel free to write on here and to send me a message anytime...LOVE YOU ALL THANKS FOR JOINING ME and Tell A Friend Caritas' in....CaritaSunshine...
...KeepIt Sunny Y'all....